The Grooming Lounge Blog

If there’s anything we’ve learned in the men’s business over the past 10 years, it’s that the “little things make all the difference.” Time and time again we’ve been told that the details are often what our guests remember most after visiting with us. We’re talking about cleanliness, the way they were greeted, the beverage they got, the music levels and the music, etc.  All these little details play a role in setting us apart – and if not handled correctly – can have a devastating effect on the way people view the larger nuts and bolts of our business (haircuts, facials, products, etc.).

But just like business, the same can be said about being true gentlemen.  It’s all in the details. Sure you can make a ton of money and date a beautiful Swedish Supermodel, but if you don’t pay attention to the details or small nuances of being a “total package” kind of guy, you’re just a poser. And while we can’t tell you everything you need to do to be true gentlemen, we certainly can give you a few suggestions and some details to avoid.  Here are our “two cents” to take or leave:

10. Hold The Door: If someone is behind you, specifically a female, hold the door open for them or at least don’t let it slam in their face. By the same token, if someone holds a door for you, you must acknowledge it with a “thanks.”

9. Don’t Call Anyone “Chief,” “Coach” or “Boss”: Unless they are actually your chief, coach or boss, don’t refer to them as such. It’s a bit patronizing and moreover just impolite.

8. Avoid The “Bro Hug” Unless You Mean It: There is nothing more uncomfortable than a “bro hug” where both male huggers aren’t displaying the same level of enthusiasm. So, size up your potential hugging partner and “go for it” if there’s a match, but otherwise, stick with the firm handshake.

7. No Fish-Like Handshakes: Dad should have taught you this awhile ago, but if you’re giving a handshake… make it count.

6. Let Them Off: Never rush onto a train, elevator or other without first letting the people on step off.

5. Oakley Glasses & Hats Worn Backwards: No

4. PUP (Proper Urinal Picking): Selecting the proper urinal in a crowded bathroom is key. Always allow at least one stall to separate you from your fellow pee-ers  if available. All involved will appreciate it.

3. Like, I Mean: It’s extremely common, so listen to yourself and your co-workers today to see how often you hear words or phrases like “like,” or “I mean”  during standard conversation. Try to cut these out and save yourself some air and a few useless words.

2. You Do Need A Mint: Everyone does after eating.

1. Groom Yourself: Shameless business plug, but true.  No nose hair, ear hair, comb overs, bad breath, pit stains, etc. Not going to work.